Modern Stories

Contemporary ceremonies can sit between the traditions we value and the modern lives we lead. They can be things of beauty which live long in the memory. Here, I explore my writing inspirations and how I approach my craft.

Contemporary ceremonies can sit between the traditions we value and the modern lives we lead. They can be things of beauty which live long in the memory. Here, I explore my writing inspirations and how I approach my craft.

Funeral


 

Forough Farrokhzad: I Will Greet The Sun Again

One of my favourites from Iranian poet and icon Forough Farrokhzad. When it comes to readings and memorials, we can shy away from some poets because of the strength of their voice....  more  

A Valediction: Forbidding Mourning

Whilst celebrants might avoid a poem which such a title, especially for modern ceremonies, this one stands the text of time.  more  

Eulogy Writing

Independent celebrants have a chance to shape your ceremony with a eulogy; but how might you shape your own?  more  

Adichie's Notes on Grief

Independent celebrants can exercise a lot of creativity when designing a ceremony and this prose piece invites exactly that kind of approach.  more  

Ruth Ozeki: Loss and Impermanence

Ozeki shows us how life can change forever in a moment. This extract, from 'The Book of Form and Emptiness' is a powerful exploration of loss and impermanence.  more  

Woolf On Grief

Prose extracts can be powerful but also a challenge. Here's some tips.  more  

Darling by Jackie Kay

A beautiful reading on grief from a queer, Glaswegian, radical voice.  more  

Angelou on grief: When Great Trees Fall

An independent celebrant always needs a treasure trove of ideas and Angelou speaks beautifully to audiences in a way that few poets can.  more  

It is better to conquer grief than deceive it

We might balk at the language of ‘conquering’ when we think of grief in our modern contexts, but I think the message from Seneca here stands the test of time.  more